May 4, 2015
Something that has been on my mind this week
is where we are as families within the church and where the family is within
the world standards. In Preach My Gospel
it says, "Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when
founded upon the teachings of Jesus Christ and when parents make their family
their highest priority. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their
families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the
necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily
responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred
responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as
equal partners” (Ensign, Nov. 1995, 102). Together, parents are to teach their
children the gospel of Jesus Christ and help them live it. Satan has a mighty grasp on families today. In 2 Timothy 3: 2-5 Paul describes apostasy
and the perilous times of the last days as such: "For men
shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers,
disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection,
truce-breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are
good, traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of
God. Having a form of godliness, but
denying, the power thereof, from such turn away." Now, is the Proclamation
to the Family describing a perfect, ideal home? Yes. Are
there any perfect families? No. That is why this is a doctrinal standard and
it should be our goal. Once upon a time
there was a man named Lehi and one night he had a dream. He saw families holding fast to a rod of iron
walking towards a tree of life. Then he
looks around and sees individuals in a great and spacious building laughing,
mocking, (insert 2 timothy 2:3-5 here, lol) and all sorts of awful things
towards those holding fast to the rod. All those who held fast lived happily
ever after and all the others did not. I
am sure those mocking, laughing, and pointing from the great and spacious
building were loud. But it is not always
the loudest voice that is the correct voice. Sometimes growth and strength is easier in theory
instead of in practice. But as we strive
to reach our goals, as we try to #holdtotherodda, as we love our families and
humble ourselves, Heavenly Father will bless us with more things than we can
comprehend.
In Alma 5:27 it says, "Could ye say, if ye were called to die at this
time, within yourselves, that ye have been sufficiently humble?" Humility is recognizing gratefully your
dependence on the Lord and acknowledgment that your talents and abilities are
gifts from God. In John, the Savior
says, "I can of mine own self do nothing... I seek not mine own will, but
the will of the father which hath sent me." This past week has been hard,
hard in the sense that I needed to humble myself and try to understand the
importance of God's greater plan and trust more fully in his way and in his
timing. I think it's ironic that my
mission scripture is Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all thine
heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge
him, and he shall direct thy paths." I should probably apply that more... whoops. We all make mistakes. This past week I have come to realize through
humbling experiences that love is a blessing and curse. A curse in the selfish sense that (insert one of the following: 1. when your
recent convert is on her death bed after battling ever single type of cancer
known to man. 2. when you see one of the
worst possible accidents happen - no details included. 3. when you have to drop a family of non-progressing
investigators. 4. your companion spills
buckets of water on your "I am turning 8 and being baptized"
scriptures. 5. when your 14 year old
investigator decides that worldly entertainment is more “pleasurable” than the
magnificent and lasting happiness of the gospel) your heart literally
breaks in to two when you see these loved ones struggle in any aspect of life. Imagine
the worst high school break up and multiply it by at least a thousand and you might
experience a piece of missionary life. Loving
people can lead to disappointment and sorrow but only because you care and are
concerned, not because you stop loving them. Why is love a blessing? When you love someone they can experience a
particle of the love God has for them and a tiny piece of their divine
potential. It is important that we
humble ourselves so God can work through us to help our lost brothers and
sisters find their way back to him. Just
like Ammon said in Alma:26 (my favorite Book of Mormon chapter) 11-12,
"But Ammon said unto him: I do not boast in my own strength, nor in my own
wisdom; but behold, my joy is full, yea, my heart is brim with joy, and I will
rejoice in my God. Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore
I will not boast of myself, but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I
can do all things." We can overcome
Satan’s direct temptation, use of lies and deception, stirred contention, and
mighty discouragement as we humble ourselves and recognize God's hand in all
things. We, as individuals and families,
"are happiest when founded on the teachings of Jesus Christ."
And now a S/O to my wonderful mommy because
Mother's Day is coming up and she just deserves a S/O. In Alma 56:48 it says, "we do not doubt
our mothers knew it." This is
talking about the 2000 stripling warriors. As much as I would have loved to believe that
my mom was wrong in all aspects of life (stupid teenager- good thing I am an
adult now) I always knew that my mom knew best. My mom is the most humble, genuine,
Christ-like, hardworking person I know. She helps everyone around her and she loves
EVERYONE. I want to be my mom when I grow up. I LOVE MY MOM. HAPPY M DAY. I can
honestly say, "I, Sister Rodda, have been born of goodly parents."
Oh and there
were also some awesome things this week that I didn't mention above so here
they are:
1. stake conference. rocked my socks off.
2. SM, a potential investigator
invited us over for dinner on mother's day. kinda cool,
3. S, a referral, committed himself to come
to church without us even asking
4. M,
had an awesome lesson with her and she is progressing.
current investigators; C, M, S,
My, A, E
That's all for today folks. Love and miss you all. See you on m day!!!!!
love sister rodda.